NLP Master Practitioner course

March 8th, 2010
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The all new NLP Master Practitioner Course graduates come running out of the training, their eyes filled with possibilities, their hearts pumping with joy!

When you look back on anyone you called a teacher or master, what was it that caught your attention? Is it that have taken something quite special and made it their own? A true master of  NLP has learned what makes up NLP, what's behind the NLP techniques and how can you begin to use NLP in your own way, rather than just parrot fashioned.

Of course we provide you with plenty of new NLP Master Practitioner material (see links below), yet we teach you in a style that relates to you as the future designer of techniques with a true understanding of what makes change or self-development really work.

Don't just take my word for it:

"Terry, thank you so much for a wonderful training session. I am flying so high I don't think I'll need to use BA to get to Tampa this week! Before, I knew that I could be a great NLP Practitioner but I didn't know it, now I do. Thanks again. See ya Viv" Vivien Melanie

The all new modular format we use now has proven to be the most popular yet.

Three modules, which are whole and complete in themselves that you can do in any order and at any time! We tend to run two or even three in a year so there's plenty of options of a custom training or just do all the modules consecutively.

Each module can be paid for separately, so you can really budget easily with no risk.

The modules are only £685 each and that price has remained the same for the last 5 years; we just want you to experience this fantastic training!

"Thanks again for last weekend. Only one word - awesome! The real description is somewhere in the Infinite Cosmos...... Anyway, I got to playing with whether I could make it to the next Module 3 - what if I did / what if I didn't / for what purpose not going, and concluded that I HAD to be there". Adrian Munday

Adam Sprackling and Terry Elston run the training so you are in the best hands ever! We both have had the most successful years so far individually and as a company, which is testament to living what we teach.

Adam has just started coaching professional golfers and is getting pretty good himself at the game! He also has launched a new golfing coaching line of products that I'm sure you'll be seeing around soon.

Terry has been running NLP Practitioner courses internationally with India being the latest success, producing NLP Practitioner courses and the Trainers Training out in Goa. He's also won a contract with the police force for training staff in NLP. There's some irony in there because he vowed never to work in the police after his Mother, Father and Stepfather were all police officers! This follows his recent success, working with the Cabinet Office and the education department in NLP training.

So what we are saying is that dreams can come true. The Master Practitioner course is about developing yourself to be a champion communicator, and that means inside out! If you inner game is good and clean, then the messages you give out will be as well...which is one of the first laws of attraction.

Click here for the full description of the NLP Master Practitioner course

Click here to register for the NLP Master Practitioner (£350 registration fee)

The Law of Attraction weekend course

March 1st, 2010
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Dreams do come trueThe Law of Attraction course is taking place on 13th - 14th March, the weekend before the spring equinox.

For more information about what's on the course (and there's much more than I can possibly write about here), click on this link for the Laws of Attraction Weekend

At this time, in 2010, I've seen a shift that's happening all around; there seems to be more honesty, even if it hurts. Look at the politicians who are being told to give money back. I've seen more people splitting up from their relationships after realising truths that were not going to go away. And the recession has made a lot of people wonder if they are in the right job, house, community.

So it's all change!

How does the Law of Attraction course work?

The basis of the course can be seen like a landscaped garden. The first thing you'd have to do is look at the reality: how is the land now? What would you like in your garden?

The next part will be to look at what's in the way. What rocks are there? What weeds are choking this dream?

Then we look at aligning yourself to who you really are in this world before finally looking at the seeds that you'll plant in your newly fertile soil.

There's no point making goals and plans if there are limitations which keep stopping progression. My own experience is that goals set themselves when there's enough space for them to manifest: Create the space and watch the goals drop in for you!

So if you know this is for you, get on now as we keep the numbers small for intimacy.

The Law of Attraction works by you managing your inner game. That takes a little gardening. Life will sort you out sooner or later if you let things drift, but why wait for dramas to occur? Stay on the front foot and be in charge of the changes.

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Presenting Skills NLP style!

February 22nd, 2010
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presentaions1.jpgI've seen a lot of presenters and a lot of those have been using presenting skills NLP style!

So what's different about NLP presentation skills?

When I did my trainers course in 1999, I hadn't much of an idea what goes into an excellent presentation. Isn't it just about being confident and being yourself? No, not at all as I was about to find out.

Confidence has little to do with how the audience perceive you.

We use the word confidence so much, yet you have to break down what you mean by it, to make sense of the process thats happening to make it good or bad.

Body posture has a huge effect on the audience. If you can keep the body in an aligned posture during your talk, your audience has a chance to take the information easily. From research carried out, body language counts for at least 50% of what people are looking for to tell them what's good or not. If you couple that with another 30% (at least) for the tone of voice you are using, you'll get the picture that it's not so much about the content at all!

So why bother with content at all?

Of course, there's going to be a point where you'll need to satisfy your audience with content relevant to why they are there. Yet if you thought that people are judging you on the content exclusively, you'll be losing confidence already unless you have an amazing way with words.

So the first part on the way to excellent presenting is to use your body and keep it symmetrical without too many distracting unconscious movements.

Next will be to satisfy the different learning styles in the room. There may be people who prefer pictures for their information, some who love tones and noises, maybe even sound effects; those who love to feel out the program and just want an exercise to 'try it out'.

What about business presentations?

In business presentations, you can guess that at least half will prefer a style we call self talk or labeling types in NLP. They will not be using primary senses to experience your talk, yet will be one step behind or above the experience labeling, understanding, processing or writing down notes to ask questions later. They don't need a touchy feely experience; they want to know facts and figures and if it all makes sense!

You'll also want to take care of the 4 types of processing in the room. Why people; What people; How people and What if? people.

The 4 mat system

Some people are motivated by Why? questions. They want to know why we are listening to this talk. others by What? questions; they want information...and probably lots of it! The How? people want to get on and do an exercise, get their hands on it and try it. Then there are the What if? people who want to know how this material applies to their life, workplace or environment.

Mixed in with this, you'll need some humour, good metaphors (opened loops are the best), and an ability to manage the energy of the room whilst staying connected to the whole group simultaneously.

Sound easy? It can be with a little practice and a good teacher.

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If you want a bit of a laugh, here are some outtakes from a presentation skills recording. Click here for a giggle!

Synchronicity and NLP

February 15th, 2010
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NLP , Synchronicity and Awareness

Which way?Synchronicities are patterns that repeat in time .  The word 'synchronicity' references the gears or wheels of time, though the actual concept of synchronicity cannot be scientifically proven.

One can only record synchronicities as they occur and watch the patterns of behaviour that create them. The concept of synchronicity is currently linked more to metaphysics, yet physics (quantum physics) and metaphysics are merging, thus showing their interconnection and how we manifest synchronicities in our lives.

Oner way of looking at Synchronicity are people, places or events that you attract into your life to help you evolve to higher consciousness or to place emphasis on something going on in your life.

To make sense of that, you'll have to agree that your prime directive in life is to evolve yourself and grow as a person; if not, this article won't be for you!

If you are still with the article, then further what we are saying is the more consciously you develop yourself and are aware of how you are evolving as a person,  the higher your energy/frequency becomes and the faster you manifest positively.

Each day of your life you attract coincidences, synchronicities, or things that everyday people may just call luck or chance.

TogetherEven if you don't believe in this concept, it doesn't matter. Things are going to happen whether you believe that things around you are intimately connected to you or not!

My personal preference is to look for synchronicity as it raises my awareness and consciousness daily.

If you start to come into the notion that there are no accidents, then you'll be much more powerful about your mind and body and be able to deal with issues with empowerment.

Not all synchronicities are positive.  Those that tend to believe in synchronicity and the law of attraction, sometimes tend to disregard the negative dramas to be swept under the carpet. Yet if you have model of synchronicity, you must alos see it from all angles and take responsibility for all events and the links back to yourself.

In fact the word responsibility came from the phrase "Able to respond". In other words to deal with the issues at hand as if they are yours.

Here's how that may work:

If you are have emotional problems, and therefore probably manifesting drama around you, you will attract people and events as reflections of your own inner turmoil.

Synchronicity may occur to make a quick point.  Don't blow them out of proportion.  You must look at the bigger picture of the synchronicity, think outside the box, (the patterns of reality) not at the actual experience.

You can consider an event synchronistic when an inner experience such as a dream, vision, or other form of deja vu, prepares you for the physical event.

Examples of Synchronicity

You are suffering with financial difficulties, yet money for basic expenses such as rent, food, and utilities, always manifests.  You can begin to trust this.  At first you thank the universe or god, then you realize you create this abundance.  You are learning to watch how you manifest and why, watching yourself from outside the box.

One of our trainers has a fantastic way of running out of money and when it gets uncomfortable enough he simply get a massive coaching or training job...just like that. I've started joking with him that when things are getting low it must be time for the big deal to come in. And it does!

Another example: You have just received your last check from unemployment when suddenly a job comes along.

You walk into a book store not knowing what to buy, and the book you need falls from a shelf and practically hits you over the head.

You have been feeling ill with no clear diagnosis. You meet someone who knows a doctor or healer with the answers.

All physical problems stem from emotional or unresolved issues.  Your deeper mind will point out the patterns and hopefully the solutions.  When the person is ready to heal, the doctor will be there. When the student is ready, the Master arrives.  That person will often show up by synchronicity.

When you are confused and in emotional pain, you either have trouble manifesting synchronicities or they are major learning lessons.

Some more examples: There is a sudden relocation which seems to be for one reason, but later you find much more than you bargained for as the synchronicities rapid occur as if a domino effect.  For example, you relocate for a new job, then, as if by synchronicity, someone 'special' comes into your life.  You and that person have attracted each other for experience, as all life is nothing more than that. In another case, the energies of the area hold something transformational for you, which is perhaps the reason your soul created the move in the first place.

You finally end a bad relationship and immediately another partner comes into your life as if by synchronicity.

You drive to a place where parking is "next to impossible" and someone pulls out of a parking spot or it is waiting for you.

You meet someone who interests you and touches your soul.  Through synchronicity that person seems to come into your life over and over again.  You begin to feel a destiny with that person.  You begin to think with your heart instead of your head.  You connect with that person.  In some cases the karma between the two people is positive but in many cases you have attracted that person into your life for a learning lesson whether you are aware of it or not.

You feel depressed and can't find focus in your life. The next person you talk you says something that brings needed guidance.  In a world of wounded souls, and evolving consciousness, answers to help and guide will come more quickly and from different sources than in your past.  Learn from those who come along, but never become co-dependent.

A well-known example of synchronicity involves the true story of French writer Emile Deschamps.  In 1805 he was treated to some plum pudding by Monsieur de Fontgibu. Ten years later, he encountered plum pudding on the menu of a Paris restaurant, and wanted to order some, but the waiter told him the last dish had already been served to another customer, who turns out to be Monsieur de Fontgibu. In 1832 Emile Deschamps visited a restaurant with a friend and is once again offered plum pudding. He recalled the earlier incident and told his friend that only Monsieur de Fontgibu is missing to make the setting complete.  At that moment a senile Monsieur de Fontgibu enters the room by mistake.

Carl Jung and Synchronicity

Synchronicities are meaningful coincidences.

quantum-istock_000001143736small.jpgSynchronicity is a word coined by the Swiss psychologist Carl Jung to describe the temporally coincident occurrences of acausal events. It was a principle that he felt compassed his concept of the collective unconscious , in that it was descriptive of a governing dynamic that underlay the whole of human experience and history, social, emotional, psychological, and spiritual. Jung believed that many experiences perceived as coincidence were due not merely to chance, but instead potentially reflected the manifestation of coincident events or circumstances consequent to this governing dynamic.  Jung spoke of synchronicity as being an "acausal connecting principle" (ie. a pattern of connection that is not explained by causality).

Jung believed the traditional notions of causality were incapable of  explaining some of the more improbable forms of coincidence. Where it is plain, felt  Jung, that no causal connection can be demonstrated between two events, but  where a meaningful relationship nevertheless exists between them, a wholly different type of principle is likely to be operating. Jung called this principle "synchronicity."

In The Structure and Dynamics of the Psyche, Jung describes how, during his  research into the phenomenon of the collective unconscious, he began to observe  coincidences that were connected in such a meaningful way that their occurrence  seemed to defy the calculations of probability. He provided numerous examples from his own psychiatric case-studies, many now legendary.

"A young woman I was treating had, at a critical moment, a dream in which she was given a golden scarab. While she was telling me her dream, I sat with my back to the closed window. Suddenly I heard a noise behind me, like a gentle tapping. I turned round and saw a flying insect knocking against the window-pane from outside. I opened the window and caught
the creature in the air as it flew in. It was the nearest analogy to the golden scarab that one finds in our latitudes, a scarabaeid beetle, the common rose-chafer (Cetoaia urata) which contrary to its usual habits had evidently felt an urge to get into a dark room at this particular moment. I must admit that nothing like it ever happened to me before or since, and that the dream of the patient has remained unique in my experience." The Scarab represented Self-Generation, Resurrection and Renewal.

Who then, might we say, was responsible for the synchronous arrival of the  beetle, Jung or the patient? While on the surface reasonable, such a question  presupposes a chain of causality Jung claimed was absent from such experience.

As psychoanalyst Nandor Fodor has observed, the scarab, by Jung's view, had no  determinable cause, but instead complemented the "impossibility" of the analysis. The  disturbance also (as synchronicities often do) prefigured a profound transformation.  For, as Fodor observes, Jung's patient had--until the appearance of the  beetle--shown excessive rationality, remaining psychologically inaccessible. Once  presented with the scarab, however, she improved.

Because Jung believed the phenomenon of synchronicity was primarily connected  with psychic conditions, he felt that such couplings of inner (subjective) and outer  (objective) reality evolved through the influence of the archetypes, patterns inherent in the human psyche and shared by all of mankind.

These patterns, or  "primordial images," as Jung sometimes refers to them, comprise man's collective  unconscious, representing the dynamic source of all human confrontation with death,  conflict, love, sex, rebirth and mystical experience. When an archetype is activated  by an emotionally charged event (such as a tragedy), says Jung, other related  events tend to draw near. In this way the archetypes become a doorway that  provide us access to the experience of meaningful (and often insightful) coincidence.

Implicit in Jung's concept of synchronicity is the belief in the ultimate "oneness" of the  universe. As Jung expressed it, such phenomenon betrays a "peculiar  interdependence of objective elements among themselves as well as with the
subjective (psychic) states of the observer or observers." Jung claimed to have  found evidence of this interdependence, not only in his psychiatric studies, but in his  research of esoteric practices as well.

Of the I Ching, a Chinese method of divination  which Jung regarded as the clearest expression of the synchronicity principle, he  wrote:

"The Chinese mind, as I see it at work in the I Ching, seems to be exclusively  preoccupied with the chance aspect of events. What we call coincidence seems to  be the chief concern of this peculiar mind, and what we worship as causality passes  almost unnoticed...While the Western mind carefully sifts, weighs, selects, classifies,  isolates, the Chinese picture of the moment encompasses everything down to the  minutes nonsensical detail, because all of the ingredients make up the observed  moment."

Jung discovered the synchronicity within the I Ching also extended to  astrology. In a letter to Freud dated June 12, 1911, he wrote:

"My evenings are  taken up largely with astrology. I make horoscopic calculations in order to find a clue  to the core of psychological truth. Some remarkable things have turned up which will  certainly appear incredible to you...I dare say that we shall one day discover in  astrology a good deal of knowledge that has been intuitively projected into the  heavens."

In formulating his synchronicity principle, Jung was influenced to a profound degree  by the "new" physics of the twentieth century, which had begun to explore the  possible role of consciousness in the physical world. In 1945 Jung wrote

Physics has demonstrated that in the realm of atomic magnitudes objective reality presupposes an observer, and that only on this condition is a satisfactory scheme of explanation possible.  This means, that a subjective element attaches to  the physicist's world picture, and secondly that a connection necessarily exists  between the psyche to be explained and the objective space-time continuum.  These discoveries not only help loosen physics from the iron grip of its materialistic world, but confirmed what I recognized intuitively that matter and  consciousness, far from operating independently of each other are, in fact, interconnected in an essential way, functioning as complementary aspects of a unified reality.

The belief suggested by quantum theory and by reports of synchronous events that matter and consciousness interact, is far from new. Synchronicity reveals the meaningful connections between the subjective and objective world.  Synchronistic events provide an immediate religious experience as a direct encounter with the compensatory patterning of events in nature as a whole, both inwardly and outwardly.

Princeton Case Study and Conclusions

A 2005 study at Princeton Engineering Anomalies Research Lab, suggested that there is a small, though statistically measurable link, between human thought and patterns that occur in random data sets. There is no evidence as to whether this is caused by individuals unintentionally recognizing complex patterns and then molding their thoughts towards an unconsciously known result or the thoughts of the individual are themselves affecting the random patterns in a manner of individuation. This study's results have not been replicated, and its methodologies are disputed.  Since the theory of synchronicity is not testable according to the classical scientific method, it is not widely regarded as scientific.

Probability theory can attempt to explain events such as the plum pudding incident in our normal world, without any interference by any universal alignment forces. However, the correct variables required for actually computing the probability cannot be found. This is not to say that synchronicity is not a good model for describing a certain kind of human experience, but, according to the scientific method, it is a reason for the refusal of the idea that synchronicity should be considered a "hard fact", i.e., an actually existing principle of our universe.

Supporters of the theory claim that since the scientific method is applicable only to those phenomena that are reproducible, independent of observer and quantifiable, the argument that synchronicity is not scientifically 'provable' should be considered a red herring, as, by definition, synchronistic events are not independent of the observer, since the observer's unique history is precisely what gives the synchronistic event meaning for the observer.

A synchronistic event appears like just another meaningless 'random' event to anyone else without the unique prior history which correlates to the event. This reasoning claims that the principle of synchronicity raises the question of the subjectivity of significance and meaning in the sequence of natural events.

Correlation can also be described as an 'acausal connecting principle' and so has been proposed as an analogy to the phenomenon of synchronicity. Though correlation does not necessarily imply causation, yet, correlation may in fact be a physical property shared by events without there being a classical cause-effect relationship, as shown in quantum physics, where widely separated events can be correlated without being linked by a direct physical cause-effect.

Synchronicity has been proposed as a corollary phenomenon of the many-worlds or parallel universes theory of quantum physics, in that the subject is somehow 'navigating' to those particular alternate worlds that are correlated to their past history, among the myriad possible other worlds that are not as correlated to their past history.  Although this idea has made it into the popular press, it is considered pseudoscience by most scientists as the parallel universe theory states that all possible futures exist simultaneously, therefore the subject indeed lives out all possible futures in parallel.

Our two day course The Law of Attraction, allows you to clear out the cupboards of your internal world, leaving an ability to shine out your messages clearly.

The only thing in the way of you manifesting positively is your inner world of memories and beliefs .

It's 2010, it's time. Come and have fun whilst cleaning out the old you and bringing synchronicity to the new!

The Law of Attraction Course March 13th - 14th 2010 Brighton

NLP and effective self-change

February 8th, 2010
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You cannot NOT communicate

I asked a good friend recently what he wanted to know about NLP . He replied "How does NLP work with effective self change?"

So this post is my answer to how NLP wolks with effective self-change, or self transformation.

When you think of developmental stages in your life, there will always be patterns of change.

So what is self-change and how come it doesn't just happen automatically? Through the eyes of an NLP Practitioner, you'll see that all change is unconscious .

The filter systems that you and I have were evolved at ages zero - seven, so these patterns are hard wired and difficult to move.

That's a good idea too as we all need some protection from changing too quickly for any reason! Any change you want to make to the 'hard wiring' is going to happen unconsciously, as that's how it got programmed there in the first place.

The memories you and I own have all been conditioned over the years, so much so that you believe everything you see and hear within yourself! That's perfectly normal of course and will never be questioned...unless problems start to occur.

As soon as an insurmountable problem or challenge appears, the whole system goes into panic, anger, chaos or confusion and solutions are needed quickly!

Logical or cognitive solutions may work short term, yet as all the solutions reside in our unconscious mind , you will have to access that area to perform a solution.

Sometimes the amount of stress or pressure may be enough to clear the problem out of its own accord and sometimes you'll need to be proactive and find assistance outside.

Here's an example of an issue that cleared up by itself, albeit over a long period.

My mother took me to an exhibition and inside there was boxing ring on the side. I was four years old and the guy in the boxing ring beckoned me to come in. I thought he meant it and being four didn't think I'd win so ran off crying!

Of course, alike many memories, that one was forgotten and I continued through my younger years. All the way through the period between this time and my early thirties, I had this unanswered question about whether I was 'tough' or not?

To the women reading this may be a completely strange thing to be considering, yet to men it's quite a big issue....until you find out.....normally early on what those kind of issues are all about.

This underlying question went on until one day I suddenly decided that I wanted to get ultra fit and was considering which training would be best. From a point of inspiration and choice (or so I thought), I came up with boxing training as the best form to practice.

I went through all the aspects of hard, tough fitness and came to the time when I'd be sparring for the first time. In the boxing ring, I managed to fight well, yet when a 'lucky' punch came at me in an awkward angle, my nose met it with a large 'bang' and it was fractured.

In that moment, I got taken all the way back to four years old and all the questions I had about fighting, being tough and my 'Manhood'.

In a flash (or a bang) all the questions were answered and I learned about being a man, so much so that I never considered the issues again. So just look at the synchronicity of events and how my unconscious mind must have wanted the resolution to the issue. Eventually I literally took myself back to the source of the problem so i could experience getting back to understanding.

So when you consider self-change, you would be considering getting back to issues that evolved a ong way back, yet will still be happening today. We have a saying within NLP which is to 'Trust your Unconscious Mind'.

What that means is that the patterns are residing in the unconscious, so trust whatever messages are coming to you and what you may be attracted to. If you don't listen, you may have to wait a number of years and get hit on the head for you to remember what you are supposed to be learning. Otherwise, a great use of NLP, Time Based techniques and Hypnosis , is to use them to access these deeper areas and lt the understandings, memories and beliefs resolve themselves.

We also run our two day training, designed to deal with deep patterns and memories. It's called The Law of Attraction. We trust this helps with the questions you may be having about Self Change.